The other day my children and I were at the park. As I was walking along holding Anna's hand she looked up and asked, "Daddy, can I go make some new friends?"This simple phrase resonated in my heart. "Making" new friends described the process very well.
Prov 18:24 A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.
There are many people who feel lonely, isolated and alone, simply because they do not realize that friendship is work and close friendships have there costs.
However, the benefits far out way the price.
True Friendship will require us to...
1. Take Risks
We must take the risk of rejection. We must open ourselves up. We must be willing to reveal our weaknesses, failings, and fears.
2. Make an Effort
Close friendships are work. Casual acquaintances may spring up over night but deep friendships have to be cultivated. Phone calls, emails, and trips out of your way must be made to grow and maintain strong friendships.
3. Be Selfless
Selfishness has killed so many budding relationships. Many times we must sacrifice our own desires; our own likes and dislikes; so that a friendship can continue. Selflessness does not mean that you must always give in, but it is the wisdom to know when you should and the meekness to do it.
Good things in life seldom happen by accident. Therefore, deep friendships happen on purpose. "A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly."
As my little Anna does on a daily basis, go out today and "MAKE" a friend.
You will be glad you did.
